Nothing (not) Gonna Change in Your Life

I was a good kid. In common.My definition : I never got trapped in serious teenager problem, I obey my parents rules , following every guidelines they made. I was always asking when I want to do something, whether I was allowed to do that or not.

But since times keep running, I am growing older. And there came times, that I have to decided everything about me by myself.  And here came an awareness inside me that I'm the one that really know what I want, what I need for my self. Furthermore, I'm the one that responsible for my life. Unfortunately, my parents aren't moderat people, they are "we-are-the-only-one-that-know-exactly-right-things-for-you"-parents type.

And that was the beginning of changing in my relationship with my parents.

When I was a younger lady, when my parents didn't stand in the same line with me,  I would did rebellion. I insisted. Don't care if that made my parents angry, or worst, sad.

But then, I'm growing more older, of course. I know that what I did before is false, to make controversy with parents isn't a good thing. I still insisted that I know the best for my self, but I change the way I communicate my willingness with my parents, if I need to, I'll do deception, obscure the information that I don't have to get in a fight with my parents that not really necessary. I don't know whether its right or not, but for now, it's the best way for me.

The interest thing is : I'm not the only one that get trap in this kind of problem. Some of my friends have the same problem. And what suprise me is, I found my older sister and my older brother use the similar strategic with me.

Something came out in my mind then : Is this just a common life process? That somehow, your relationship with your parents will change due to the age changing of all participants? I wondering. I really don't wanna to be a faithless children, but to be an independence human is also needed, isn't it?

I'd love to be told any different perspective.

ps :

*Dear Mummy Daddy, you know I love you all my heart.

 Got so many nice friends.Haaappy

Irritating watermark

I've ever got this topic in one of my course in my first year of college : Hak Kekayaan Intelektual Manusia (HaKI)/Intellectual Property (IPR). In simple word, it's about how to respect somebody work, avoid plagiarism attempt, and related thing, by making official regulation.Paten law or copyright is one example of that. But it's taking a long time to deal with it. So, people try to invent an unofficial copyright, such a stamp in their work in order to make people recognize their work. For example ,in photography world, people use watermark.

Nah, since few years ago I've got a very big interest with photography. Don't be false alarmed, please , I'm just amateur, the only place that accept my work is my social media account and my blog. :D. 

Accidentally, I live in digital area where plagiarism is everywhere and people have a very high awareness to protect their work from plagiarism. Even the amateur one protect their own. People suggest me to put watermark in my photo. The problem is, I really don't like that mark appearance in my photo.

I've try to put watermark in my photo once, it's not work for me. I found its irritating. But of course, I don't want mine to be plagiated. To hope plagiarism got destroyed from surface of the earth even seem impossible.

Hmmmm. 

What's more important you think? To protect your baby, or to fulfill your satisfaction feeling?